Individuals who want to improve their marriages should look at what behaviors they can quit in order for the benefit of their relationships. “Changing what you do will create a different pattern of interaction and elicit a different response from your spouse,” says Dr. Chavis. “Quitting behaviors like taking your spouse for granted, being negative and expecting your spouse to just know your wants and desires can greatly improve the state of your relationship.”
Dr. Chavis received her PhD from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. She specializes in working with couples and utilizing interventions that promote intimacy and increase marital satisfaction, and is receiving advanced training in couples therapy through her fellowship at The Family Institute. To speak to Dr. Chavis about the habits couples should quit to better their marriage in the new year, or to learn more about The Family Institute, please contact Colleen O’Connor, Content & Grant Manager, at coconnor@family-institute or 312-609-5300 ext. 485.
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